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writes:i am 16. i have been with my girlfriend for about a month now, and things are going great. we talk alot and for the most part we dont have trouble sparking a conversation. she broke up with her boyfriend of two years to pursue a relationship with me .she and i have been friends for years. so when they broke up, i found out she liked me, so i asked her out. but im beginning to find that things are becoming a little routine with us.i sent her flowers for our one month anniversary, but as far as conversatiion goes, i worry that i bore her from time to time.we have already shared our best stories with one another and we know alot about each other.ive had trouble with this with past girlfriends, and i think this is why my relationships with girls never last more than about a month. i really like this girl, and i dont want that to happen with this relationship. i fear that if i dont find a way to spice things up, she will lose interest and ultimately break up with me. so please someone tell me how to spice up the mood when im around her, so that its not so dull, and she will continue to like me
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): You could always try and make some great memories together. It might sound cliched but then you would have plenty to talk about. Do something unexpected and suprise her with something nice. I dunno just anything that can be special. You will do fine. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): My first impression is you must not know each other on such a personal level if you are having trouble with conversation and 'spicing up the mood'. Make plans. See a movie, go out to dinner, go shopping together. Do fun things that will let you guys get to know each other and bring in conversation. Then next time you are on the phone with her you can bring up stories about funny things that happened when you where out to dinner or doing this or that. Conversation shouldn't be hard to have with someone you are dating. You should always have something to talk about. Ask her questions about herself. Being able to talk openly with the person you're with is the best thing about being in a relationship!
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