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I need tips for new sex positions and ideas

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Question - (17 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ootyboot writes:

My bf and I have sex a lot, but it's usually in the same methods, either he spoons me or i'm on top. That's it.

He has a small penis and has trouble with keeping erections, so I try not to vary too much because I'm afraid any changes will make it hard for him.

Does anyone have any suggestions for sex positions for a guy with a small you know what? How should I spice things up?

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntI copied this from my previous posting on a similar question on sex position:

There are quite a number of instructional sites for sexual positions. Google karma sutra positions, and you may find

http://www.karmasutrapictures.com/

http://www.goodtoknow.co.uk/relationships/259026/Kama-Sutra-positions

http://www.jijasali.com/kama.php?category=positions

http://www.spaceandmotion.com/kama-sutra-positions.htm

http://kamasutrafree.stores.yahoo.net/kamsutpos.html

Have fun!

Cat

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (17 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIt is a challenge to describe positions with only words, but I have tried here occasionally for more than a year. Some of my favorite positions probably require above average size, but I'll agree with "jezebel527" that the "sideways" attitude can allow maximum vaginal penetration.

Really helps if you can do the "splits." lol With the woman mainly on her side, my preference is to straddle her lower thigh and help her lift the other in whatever way she is comfortable. It helps to place a pillow under her hip to bring her vagina slightly upward for penetration. Especially effective with average or thin girls.

As a fairly thin man with no belly, the position allows very deep penetration, especially by sliding right up into her spread. The man should snuggle his crotch totally against her with his legs hugging her front and back. Her raised leg can be angled forward (good), almost straight upward (best) or slightly to the rear (more difficult). It is fun to change to doggie-style for awhile, then go back to the split. Have fun.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009):

I have a favorite one and my ex was kinda on the small side but this seemed to work for us. You lay on your side and he kneels behind you. Then put your leg up on his shoulder and...well...go to it lol. Because he is entering you basically sideways everything feels a little different but sooo good! Also there are a few web sites out there that will help. One that I like is www.AskMen.com And I just read this book called SuperHotSex. If you can find it I would give it a read. Anyway good luck! Let me know how it goes lol...Jez

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