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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Looking for advice when it comes to making a good impretion on a girl.Well I'm 16 yo, haven't had alot of experience with girls, and 99% of the time I don't make a good impretion. Now in my opinion I shouldn't have THAT much trouble getting a girlfriend. I'd say I have an average appearence, my only physical trait that has ever turned chicks off(that I know of) is my red hair, and I can't do much about that.So its my personality that I need to work on.I'll try to make this as breif as possible, I'm kind of shy, I suck at making eye contact, I cant respond seriously when talking about sex,but have no problem making moves physically(which makes me look pretty bad), I usually wait for a girl to approach me first, when flirting I usually come off as being a "nice guy", which really doesn't lead you anywheres.And for the record, I'm no more of a nice guy than your average Joe.Any advice would be much appreciated (just don't tell me to be myself, it's easier said than done).Thanks
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 I like red hair. And I think the reason why you haven't had any luck with relationships might be that you don't value yourself that high. Think of yourself as a product that you're trying to sell. The first thing you write about yourself is "Well I'm 16 yo, haven't had alot of experience with girls, and 99% of the time I don't make a good impretion." That's not a very charming product-description =)How do you know that 99% of the time you make a bad impression? I think you need to love yourself a little more in order to get the ladies to love you.
Being shy is a problem when it comes to making contact. Try to reach out little by little. Try something small in the beginning like complementing a girl on a nice bracelet or something (but only if you mean it). If you're always going to wait for the girls to approach you, you will be invisible to a lot of them. A lot of girls are just as shy as you are, and there might be someone out there waiting for you to approach HER.
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