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*ULIE MIKE
writes:please help.am going crazy i im in dire need of a job am the first born my brother has finished school and i see how he is stressd at home am stressed too im so broke my mum is a single mum she is really suffering to bring food for us and also school fee iv looked for a job am giving up i cry alot problems al the time if i get a job i wil be able to help in buying food and paying house rent i feel no one is there for me am pretty but i dont see need for a boyfriend or friends i feel bad i feel someone should just help us o even give me a job av really prayed..gosh i dont know what to do its hard.i cant relax am always thinking Reply to this Question
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reader, JULIE MIKE +, writes (26 July 2012):
JULIE MIKE is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI HAVE certificates for c.i.p.s which is called procurement here in kenya the course is an international course that exams come from UK and i can cook and also i have applied.you know here its not easy people give out jobs according to how you know each other and some are men and need other things in return i'd really tried to look for any aid also here you cant get them people who offer them help their family memers or their friends and there is no way i can get the aid while here..thank you guys just for listening atleast i feel theres someone listening
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 Hi
How lucky is your Mum to have you as a daughter,your so caring.x
I dont know where you live or what your skills are so not sure what would be on offer. Have you done a CV and taken it round shops,factories,offices put an advert online,do babysitting,dog walking etc. Is there no help your mum can get from the government,benefits to help with rent etc?
You need to give more detail, plus talk to your mum about how you feel or at least a family member, the family maybe able to help you find work or help your mum.Dont bottle this up, you and your brother will find something, talk to each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2012): I'm not really sure what your question is. However, I understand from your letter that you are under a lot of stress. Maybe you should try to consult someone who can help you out with managing the stress better. I know you don't really have to money to pay for that kind of help but there are some free ressources that could help.
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