I met someone through online dating and now I don't want to mess it up. Advice please.

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have recently met someone through an online dating site and, to my surprise, I really like him. We seem to have lots in common from things that seem trivial to really important things. My problem is that I have had some really bad experiences with men in the past and now find that I am waiting for it all to go wrong. I know that I can be insecure but don't know whether I should voice my concerns or not as I don't want him to think that I think he's seeing other people as well as me. We have only been seeing each other for about 4 weeks but it is beginning to scare me that I am starting to have real feelings for him. How do I overcome my insecurities and not appear to be over eager - I don't want to mess this up? Any advice would be gratefully received. Many thanks

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