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I met my online long distance guy but is it worth it?

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Question - (20 March 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2013)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I live in a small city in Canada grew up here all my life and have struggled meeting guys I like. I recently tried match.com and met a guy who lives 90 minutes by ferry away. We had chatted very often for about a month and then we met this past weekend. It was a good first date he was very sweet granted due to the ferry schedule lunch only lasted just over an hour before I had to leave. He texted me right away saying it was unfortunate it was so short but glad we met and that he enjoyed lunch with me, and I enjoyed myself too. Due to the long distance we only text and some days allot more then others but today started questioning is it worth it since we live in different countries even tho its only 90. It usually takes a few months to get to know someone who lives close. How long or effort would make sense with an online long distance. Maybe it's just me getting cold feet....

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt

My husband and I met at a gaming convention. He lived 100 miles away by car it was 90-120 minute trip depending on the time of day. I got very good at doing it in my sleep practically once we got serious.

after a year we could not bear to be apart so he moved to me.

Here's my concern... you are not that far apart but you are in two different countries... who will move to be with the other...

LDRS have ONE goal.. to NOT be LDR....

is it even a possibility you two could be together full time?

if not then I'm not sure I would bother...

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