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*ellooFish
writes:I have the most perfectest boyfriend ever. We are really happy together and want to bring a child in to this world. Recently I went out with old friends and I met a girl, We had a lot in things in common, She wasnt gay niether was I. We kissed then a hours later I went back to my hotel we had hot sex. It ws so great we did all kind of things. She is really hot, smart and funnyI dont want to breakup with my boyfriend but I still want to have occasional sex with that girl what shall I do!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, need help here i am +, writes (26 October 2007):
first of all how could you do such a thing to your boyfriend that was a stupid thing to do wasnt it i think you should first of all tell him straight about your little cheating nights and be honest with him you cant go around cheating on people so tell him and he might break up with you then you can go and start a relationship with this girl or you can sort things out with your boyfriend just whatever you do TELL HIM ABOUT IT or if you dont you could end up regreting it for the rest of your life
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
you should really make your mind up what you want to do,even thou you are having sex with another girl you are cheating on your boy friend, would not say that you were gay, rather you are bisexual,there is nothing wrong with this if you are, if you are happy and enjoy yourself then continue.
at this stage i would not consider having a baby yet,because of your age, you have plenty of time to have baby's later on in life.
If you are a true bisexual then the baby will get in the way of your enjoyment in life, and will suffer because of that,that is why i would wait until you until you are sure that is the situation you are ready to be in,baby's are a lot of hard work and need your attention 24/7 and need you for a lot of years of your life.
what ever you decide to do i wish you look ,please remember what i have said.
stay safe, be well.
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reader, StaceyMarie +, writes (26 October 2007):
 You sound very confused and i hate to be the one to tell you this but you cant have it both ways. You have to make a decision about what you really want. You say you have a perfect boyfriend and you want to start a family but you're not going to be able to do this if your sleeping with this girl. If you continue sleeping with her you could lose your boyfriend. You have to decide what is more important to you and what it is you really want. Your stil young and have your have your whole life ahead of you so take that into account aswell. Good luck with your decision.
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