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writes:So one day my husband was at work and i wanted to have sex so bad and we hadnt had sex for 3 weeks and he never wants to so i masturbated and it wasnt as bad as i thought. My husband would be mad. so am i in the wrong for doing that? Do you think there could be a main reason he never wants to have sex? Please help. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): Hey kids, YouWish is so right on in this matter. I've walked in on men masturbating so much I wonder why the hell there's even doors in my house! The same dude who won't have sex with me ...
Awesome points YouWish!
And while we're saying things the way they are, remember just like we need our personal Highlight Reel during masturbation, trust me, our men have one too, and we are not on it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so i dont feel bad for masturbating at all now thanks to all of you. that was deffinate weight lifted off my chest. i guess i just jumped to the conclusion that he would be mad cuz hes old fashioned. Yes my age is correct and im actually 19. Yeah at first i thought he may be with someone else and i really dont think so. Yeah i will check his computer and see. Shortone1 i totally agree with you, lets do it:)haha. I am going to talk to him tonight about everything. Thank you all so much for your help. I really appreciate it. As for the nude pic i will try it next friday, thats when he gets a new phone cuz his is broke.haha. So thank you.
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reader, S.G.D  +, writes (24 April 2010):
mad no, i wouldnt be eveyones does it and if they dont then well haha, talk to him bet he does when your not there, id ask too why he dont want to have you, or try and spice things up a bit do it to each other as part of forplay or sendhim a rude pic off your phone see how quick he comes home!!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 I think you should talk to him about your sex life and find out why he's not that interested. Otherwise it will make you start to feel miserable about yourself.
I don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation and neither does my husband
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (24 April 2010):
 i am 21 and my husband never wants to have sex with me anymore. what is it??? I just dont understand men. lets just keep masturbating!LOL. i really mean it.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 April 2010):
 I guarantee you that he's masturbated 20 times more than you have, and he doesn't feel the least bit badly about it. Sex once every 3 weeks is not that good. I'd ask him why, and maybe look on his computer for porn while you're at it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): There's nothing wrong with you masturbating, ever.
It's wrong your husband would judge you for it. He can be mad all he wants though.
Sounds like it's time to open up and communicate about everything you're both thinking and feeling. While it may be hard, it's great to get the truth out there -
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