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writes: i'm new to all this. ok here i go, i met the perfect guy and i really like him but he lives like 90 miles away. I Love Him and he has said he loves me. He calls me every night and we also talk in the day a little bit. My problem is i can't stop crying and i have no clue why, i don't know if i miss him or what or i might be scared to lose him. what can i do to control my emotions i'm scared i'm going to lose him over them. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): i also like this guy who lives..idk. im not reallly shure but he lives like more than 90 miles away. i went out with him a few times[lond distance relationship] like 2 years ago. after that we broke apart and i realized he was a player. but everytime i hear someone saying sumthing that relates to relationships, i remmber him and i never imagine marrying any1 other than him. idk if he likes me tho..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): Hey!, First thing is first, get a good cry!..When that is done you can start to assess why your crying. You have to ask yourself if he feels the same way. Not only does he tell you but does he show you. Has he ever told you that he would consider moving to where you are to start a real relationship with you?.. One thing you do have to realize that people act differently, the closer they are to you. Its like moving in with someone, you see a whole different side. And its this reason why you have to take things slow. Usually with us girls we want everything to go so fast, we want that perfect boyfriend, kids and life but its true you do have to kiss alot of frogs b4 you find your prince. I know you said you think you might lose him, but why?.. because your crying?.. because your insecure?. Have you spoken to him about this?.Communication is truly the key. Your best bet is to see eachother as often as you can, and if you have the same feelings when your spending real up-close time together then maybe you have something there. But remember its a two-way street, dont confuse love with curiousity. Hope this helps. Fr.FancyFace
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): i have another idea, and to be honest with you im going through the same thing as you , and my idea is well, if you feel this strongly about someone , first of all you should communicate your true feelings to that person, and if he feels the same for you give it 6 months of talking and chatting, and if u still feel the same about each other , consider maybe relocating to the town that he/she resides in..and take it from there
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reader, Princess~Abz  +, writes (17 December 2006):
 I have been through this all before. My boyfriend live about 120 miles away and we lasted 2 months. I lost everything i could to him. He made me feel like the world and i used to cry over him all the time to. Its because yes you do miss him and if he means alot to you this is also why you are crying. Its not fair and i think you should try and forget him because it wont work out unless you see each other often because ldr's barley ever work out
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): Well i have a boyfriend that is lives too far away from me and we always talk. me and Tony have been talk about it when i finish high school im gonna go live with my sister for a while before i live with him. recently he almost lose me, i was going to break up with him b/c he lives too far away but he won't let me b/c he is in love with me and he told me that he can't wait until im 17 years old so we can be together all the time. we have been together almost 2 years, every holidays im with him and summers too well i hope u won't lose him. i always cry over him b/c i miss him soo much and i haven't see him for 3 weeks now and he has to work i can't sleep over there with my sister b/c they has to work. well just hang out with ur family or friends that will work and won't think about him when u with family or friends.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 Sheesh, love shouldn't make a person so miserable! I think you have other more important issues to deal with here. Is your self-esteem where it should be? Lots of wonderful sites on the internet on how to raise one's self-esteem, I'd start my research today if I were you. Good luck.
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