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26-29,
*hickchick100
writes:My relationship with Hunter is going really well but he says I spend to much time with my Ex's baby. when I was with my ex I got attached to his baby because I would spend a lot of time with him but recently I started keeping his child and my ex said that we could be a perfect family how do I tell him that I'm happy with Hunter .I don't consider myself a babysitter I'm just attached to the child . Don't get me wrong I love Hunter but sometimes I feel guilty about leaving my ex.Im not the type of person to just always express myself and I really need help with that!!My ex should remain my ex but I always find myself going out to lunch with him but Hunter is the one I love
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reader, Thickchick100 +, writes (25 March 2014):
Thickchick100 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you guys for all of the help I think I know what to do
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 March 2014):
 I think you need to stop seeing your ex and the baby.
There is no need for a teenage girl to be involved with the baby of an ex boyfriend. Where is the baby's mother? WHY are you doing the babysitting for this child.
I am betting your ex is using this child to hold onto you.
let the child and the ex go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2014): I think you should try to stop seeing your ex and his baby altogether because he's using the baby as a way to entice you because it's playing on your hormonal instinct regarding cute babies.
You're not the babysitter, like you said, and you're not the mother, so it's not in your best interest to keep seeing the ex and the baby and, if I'm honest, I don't think it's good for the baby either.
Don't bother telling your ex anything, try to make a clean break and stop all contact - then just be with Hunter.
If you're struggling, speak to a trusted adult.
Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2014): I think you should stop hanging out with the child so much otherwhise it's going to get confused and think you're its mother. Do it for the child rather than you because if you were acting to benefit yourself you'd just continue doing what you're doing now. Don't do lunch dates with the ex either, it sounds like the rate you're going you won't have Hunter hanging round and all you'll have is this ex that you didn't want to be with in the first place.
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