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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and in that time i have never been sexually satisfied. I love him but he just cant seem to turn me on. i has been my first and only. He tries so hard so i just lie and fake it. I have tried to be honest in the past but it broke him. He couldn't get up for months and its only when i started lying that he manages to get up.i dont know what to do. we have two kids and are really in love and i wouldnt dream of going with someone else but i just wish that i could get a good fuck for once. help me i dont know what to do?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, KickRox  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Well, I suggest you try using sex toys to give yourself pleasure..or playing with yourself if you're into that.
You said you wouldn't think of looking for someone else..but try talking to him about it. He probably won't mind it. Plus, it might spice things up in your sex life.
I know it's frustrating to be left unsatisfied...
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reader, werenotincontrol  +, writes (4 December 2008):
Ah ya, Maybe buy a dildo and ask him to use it on you. Say its been a fantasy of yours since you can remember. If you still think it will hurt him get his name engraved on it;)
Ask him what his fantasies are! Be creative, Take the innotive and try new things girl!
If all else fails be a bear and lace into him. Be aggressive.....Usually works for me
Best wishes, xxx
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