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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone! I'm 24 years old and have completely landed myself in a hopeless situation. I am in a relationship since a month with a new guy after I broke up with my former boyfriend. The issue is that I am still friends with my ex and my present guy seemed to pay me little attention. I researched on the internet which provided tips on how to make my man attracted to me. Applied that jealousy technique aided by my ex.I had put up a photo on Facebook with my ex. This infuriated my present bf and he has blocked me from Facebook and other social networking sites.My bf is not listening to me and is calling me fake. He is even accusing me of have been cheating on him since the very beginning! It's not true, I only love him.Tried to talk to my present man, but he is not at all ready to believe me. Please, advice what should I do? How do I convince him that I love him only? Should I take the help of friends or try to handle the situation myself? P.S. he works at odd hours (night shifts).Thanks a lot!
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (29 May 2013):
 REally not a good way to get your bf's attention by putting a picture of yourself with your ex on facebook. All that says is that you're rubbing your relationship with your ex, in the face of your current boyfriend. Going on the internet and googling ways to make your man attracted to you and you arrived at the notion to make him jealous.
Okay, we've all done this. But in my experience it doesn't work. It just causes hurt and resentment. My bf told me to come to him and talk to him or tell him I need attention.
Perhaps you should pay your current bf more attention and take your ex off of your facebook. Pictures and all. Be more loving and show him that you love him. Actions speak louder than words. Get him something that you know he likes, apologize profusely for being so immature and for hurting him. Explain that you just wanted to grab his attention and you didn't think about the consequences completely before doing so.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013): How would you feel if he put up a picture of himself with his ex?
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