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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and I love him deeply and more than anything in the world. I plan on some day marrying him. But before I was with him I started having feelings for my best friend. At first I thought it was just one of those moments in life when you think that you might be gay, and that I just really loved her. But the feelings never went away and every time we're together I just want to touch her or something to see if she feels the same way. I am in love with her too, and I would love to be with her, but I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I can't imagine losing her as a friend. We had a discussion about this when i first started having these feelings and she thought she was too. I asked her to try to kiss me and see if she felt anything or if it was just a phase. She almost did but when i leaned in she freaked out. This was over 3 years ago. I don't know what to do and I think about her all the time.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Some friend you have. She should have backed off because you are in a relationship now. If you have doubts about your sexuality, you should explain this to your boyfriend. Don't string him along because you have doubts about who you are. I believe you should find out more about your sexual preferences BEFORE you get married. Maybe you might be gay, but you'll never know if you marry this guy and never experiment now would you? Only you have the answer to this, look deep into your heart. And don't forget, your boyfriend has a heart too.
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