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writes:I have a friend that i have feelings for and i dont know what to do. i am 22 years old and i fell in love with my best friend he is everything to me. i now that he has feelngs for me but i dont now what to do because i dont what to lose him as a friend. help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): Im in the same spot. Im in love with this girl who is one of my bestest friends ever! she says she kinda likes me too! look all i can tell you is that if you are really best friends, nothing should mess your friend ship up if anything happens. i say go for it! yall might end up getting married ;p
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 Tell him how you feel about him, if he is that much of a good friend and he does not feel the same which you clearly think he does then it should not effect your friendship.
Someone has to make the first move because if you both carry on like this to scared to do anything about it, you are just wasting time that you could be sharing together very happy.
Take care.xx.
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reader, igby  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 I think before you make any decisions you should ask yourself if you could keep up the act of just being friends? If you keep burying your feelings, especially because they are returned, you might end up loosing him anyway. Will you feel like your living a lie if you don't give this romance a chance to grow?
Friendships can break up to, but only you know whether your feelings are strong enough to act on. Don't rush into anything, just let what feels natural come. But i will say this, go into anything with fear and 9 times out of 10 it won't work. Best of luck!
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