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writes:I moved away from my home town 3 years ago and returned at the beginning of March. I had been in love with the same guy for eight years. I never stopped thinking about him when I moved. My first day back at school last friday, I didn't see him but I passed his house on my way home. He burst out of his house when he saw me and kissed me. He got all teary and sank to his knees and cried into my waist, and kept appologizing for being such a jerk before I left etc. I was crying too when he promised never to hurt me again, and asked me out. What should I do? I love him, but I left on a bad note with him. I asked his previous girlfriend what he was like and she told me that he dumped her when I left and seemed to never be the same again. What does this mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell basically, I have known him from a very young age. We were good friends but most of his friends went do a different highschool so he started hanging around me all the time. I fancied him but I need room, because he was around me ALL the time. When I asked for room, he got all huffy, and ignored me when I told him I was moving away. I think that was pretty immature and I don't want to accept knowing he's going to be around me all the time.
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reader, cathysmith07  +, writes (19 March 2012):
 Well if you love him then go back to him. You'll never know if its a mistake until you try.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 March 2012):
 "Sounds" to me like you've got him in the palm of your hand. The only thing left for you to do is to pull the trigger and get him to make a fool of himself for you.
Given the same circumstances, most of us (guys) would.... (make a fool of ourselves!!!).....
Good luck... and, go easy on him, please....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012): You were 13-14 the last time you saw him? And he had a girlfriend? Something doesn't add up like what relationship could you have possibly had with him at that age?
The whole dropping to his knees and crying doesn't sound sincere either, more like an actor doing it for dramatic effect. What happened before you left that was so awful?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (18 March 2012):
 Well, what you DO think? is he worth trying to get to know again? You think he grew up a little while you were gone?
I guess if you still care it wouldn't hurt to go on some dates and see what kind of guy he is now. Maybe he learned from his past mistakes? I would just advice to go ULTRA slow with this one. The whole crying at your feet gives me the Geebie Jeebies...
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