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writes:My girlfriend of a couple years recently left me. I have come to realize that it was because of my inability to share feelings and connect with her on a emotional level. We had a house together, we had shared everything, financially things have become messy, and I was planning on proposing to her this spring. I have no doubt in my mind that I want to be with her forever, it's one of those things you just know to be right and you don't question it. There was a time when I believe she felt the same way, I could see it in her expressions. Part of me wants to give her the space she needs to think things over, I realize she is way ahead of me in the coping process because she has been thinking of this for a long time. The other part of me feels that if I give her space she will move on; and if I seem needy or pressing, its going to push her away.What needs to be done to win her back?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Talk with her and tell her what you told us, and more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): you let her know how you feel about her, dont leave it too long, then if she wants space you give it to her. i hope you too will be fine, but if she decides that she cannot come back you will have to let her go.
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