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I lost my sex drive after the hysterectomy, what can be done about this? - my relationship is very unstable at the moment.

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Question - (15 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A female age 51-59, *ont need it writes:

I am going to be 35 in about 2 months and had a hysterectomy about 3 years ago and lost all my sex drive.

my boyfriend of 10 years is really getting old with not wanting to do it anymore i could go for ever and he really wants to leave me over it and i need to know what i can do about this. i can not take hormone replace pills because there is cancer in my family and they say those pills cause breast cancer. please help me with something to help me keep my man.

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A female reader, Paty United States +, writes (10 February 2009):

I know how you're feeling.I am 36 ....I had a full hysterectomy 12 months ago.For the first 2,3 months my sex life was terrible and finally got better after I started using Vivelle dot patch twice a week ,do exercise and eat healthly.I am still having a long way to go...but I am happy because I am pain free.

Talk to your doctor about and I hope you feel better.

Good Luck!!!!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (16 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIf he is leaving you because of sex , I think , you could make some sort of arrangement with him to keep him by your side.That is if you still want him.

If he really loves you , he would not leave you , sex or no sex.

Maybe , his leaving is a blessings in disguise because if he cannot leave, you will not find a better man.

Be an optimist.

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