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writes:I lost my baby two weeks ago, and I have to go for a post-miscarriage check up at my doctors. I'm just wondering what I should be prepared for? I don't really know much about this, and I'm quite scared as I'm not too fond of doctors anyway. Anybody know what happens? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Hi, sweety.I am very very sorry about your baby.I have had 6 miscarriages, so let me help.When I lost mine, and I went back for a checkup this is what happened; They take your vitals, possibly do a transvaginal (internal) sonogram to see if you have passed everything like normal, and check for infections.If you havent passed everything, they may do a D&C where they go in and remove what nature didnt help you pass.I wish you all the luck in the world.Hugs and Prayers,Sarah
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reader, littletigle11 +, writes (20 April 2009):
 http://www.health-science-report.com/miscarriage/miscarriage-cause/post-miscarriage.html
Check this out. It might help.
I have no experience nor any idea about it, but they say we learn something new everyday.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Huge Hug. I don't have any experience in this directly and not happy with my answer below, but think its important to give what i can. I am no medic, so just an info provider so take what i say carefully. I went looking hoping to summarise some things back to help. I found this:
http://www.pregnancy.org/article/post-miscarriage-checklist
The video on their explains a bit about miscarriages was hoping it would outline the checks - note video is a bit clinical and robotic in how the presenter says things.
http://www.naturallygettingpregnant.com/fertility-blog/2009/03/12/how-long-to-wait-after-miscarriage/
gave a bit more - an ultrasound checking for anything odd.
so my view is they will probably do a lot of questions, a bit of scanning and maybe a smear (boys knoweldge now exhausted).
I also ran a search on this site there is a lot of good information on the links.
http://www.pregnancy.org/search/node/miscarriage
in amoungst there i found this, i know it says about multiple miscarriges, but still the best i could find.:
"After Miscarriage
Miscarriages due to random natural factors are so common that they are not considered medically significant until you have had 3 in a row. At that point, the problem is officially classified as "habitual abortion," and your doctor will recommend a complete diagnostic work-up.
The investigation will probably start with a detailed interview. Which tests are performed will depend on your own personal and medical history, the father's history, and how many miscarriages you have had. You will be tested for infections of various kinds, possibly including sexually transmitted diseases. Blood tests may be done for hormonal problems or a malfunction in the immune system. You and your partner may be tested for chromosomal abnormalities and genetic diseases as well. The lining of your uterus may be analyzed from a small sample. The doctor may order an internal ultra sound of your uterus and fallopian tubes to look for fibroids, blockage, or scar tissue.
Unless the problem involves autoimmune antibodies, chromosomal abnormalities, or a weak cervix, there is a 70 to 85 percent chance of success, even after 4 miscarriages.
Sex can be resumed safely within 4 to 5 weeks after miscarriage. A woman's body usually is prepared for another pregnancy after 1 or 2 normal menstrual periods. Ovulation can occur as little as 2 weeks after a miscarriage.
Give yourself enough time to recover emotionally from your loss before facing the challenges of another pregnancy. As with any major life event, it is important to balance the need to grieve with the need to move on. And remember, most couples who experience a miscarriage can go on to have a healthy baby."
Try not to be afraid of doctors or hospitals - more people are cured by them than not (or so i am told). Tell them you are worried and i am sure they will be nicer.
I hope that all helps in some small way.
Hugs Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Hi, firstly I want to say how truly sorry I am about your loss - I hope you are able to stay strong in this difficult time. I have spoken to my friend who went for the same appointment and apparently hers wasn't remotely intrusive, she expected an examination of sorts, but her GP only asked her how she was feeling, had she been bleeding, felt differently etc, when she replied she hadn't that was the end of it. If you have been having issues with your health, the examination might prove to be more thorough and unfortunately intrusive, just ensure that you feel you are in good hands and have been treated respectfully and the doctor has really given you the attention that you require as the last thing you want is complications later. Good luck.
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