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anonymous
writes:i really like this guy im my year. im 14 and the girl that is his best friend dosent like me cause i got angry at her for saying a few racist jokes about me behind my back (im 1/4 asian) and i really like him but i never get to talk to him or hang out with him cause his friend is always saying bad things about me and making up rumours and also walks away with him if im coming. he said to one of my friends last we that he liked me but because i didn't talk much to him he started to stop and now like his friend who hates me.. what can i do ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2012): just tell your guy everything and tell him that you wont take any of it.if he truly loves you,he will be supportive and help you..if he doesnt,then that simply means that he has no respect for you so you should just move on..also confront his friend on this matter.tell him he has to be a fool to pass on such racist comments. tell your parents,they are more experienced and have more knowledge on how to deal with such people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): first of all, go straight to your principal or your teacher and tell them all the racist comments and that it really hurts you...also don't be afraid to go talk to him, if he truly does like you then he will take the time to listen to you. explain to him what his friend has been saying...and that is why you haven't spoken. your anger at her is expected and i assure you i would i have been angry too...have you spoken to you parents? they will be very helpful...one last thing stand up for yourself!!! she has no right to treat you that way...and just for the record i don't mean to be preachy but God loves you just as much as he loves her.
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reader, amenthyst3356  +, writes (8 June 2012):
It sounds like his friend likes him. Unless he can stand up and stop to talk to you then he truly won't get to know you. There really isn't anything you can do at this point.
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