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writes:hello, I like this girl but she seems to hate me... and I'm a shy person so I don't talk to her much but from what I have said to her and what she said back I think she hates me. Can anyone give me advice to maybe try to get her to like me.. or should I just move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Not everyone will like you in life. The secret is don't go changing to make them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): No matter how hard we try we can never get people to like us if they dont want to. If she hates you so much and you can sense this then just give up now and meet someone who you so rightly deserve. Why are you pinning over what looks like a lost cause.
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reader, Stroller +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Just move on. It's not worth being a punchbag for someone petty and mean.
Hey! Maybe she does like you in some messed up ponytail-pulling sort of way, but I doubt it, and there's no way for you to get her to reveal her true colours if she does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Being negative is a game women tend to play a lot. Even when they are interested, so it is hard to tell whether the lack of interest or even turning-down is sincere. That's the thing I hate the most about all that dating.
Just hang on, but never push. Keep your distance, but stay friendly and open. If it's a game she is playing, and you show to her a degrading interest, even though it was first clear you were into her, you will actually call her to action. It might take a while, though. If even after some time she shows no interest to the distanced you, you should, again, never push, for it will ruin your chances if she is unwilling.
If she's being rude and all, the problem is most likely herself, unless you are either being rude or pushy. Even if she has no interest, rudeness is a trait of lack of character, projection and other sorts of problems that lie deep within her. Just like thatgothgirl said, people are frequently dishonest and cover it up with lies, for they are ashamed (or something) of the truth. Or it is a test. I think this answer is past it's efficiency point. Did I mention never be pushy? :P
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 You can't get anyone to like you.But look at it this way, maybe she is just pretending to hate you. I had a friend who this girl was always very mean to him, and then one day out of the blue, she was all, "I love/like you!!!!" It shocked him beyound belief!!!!!!! Amazing, isn't it????
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