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writes:Help me! My best friend's ex just told me that he likes her again and wanted me to tell her. So I did. A few days later, I realized that I really do like her ex. I have a boyfriend, and I feel like I'm betraying not only my boyfriend, but my best friend as well. I have never met the boy in person, but I talk to him every day. I want to know what to do!
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reader, Ushley  +, writes (20 June 2012):
 you havent met the guy in person yet but you think you like him, I think what you feel right now is just an infatuation cause you talk every day , if you want to stay away from trouble since you have a boyfriend just tell him to contact you friend directly than you and spend more time with your boyfriend than him,surely you'll forget him
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2012): Just stop and think, your best friend and boyfriend would be at stake for a little lust? I dont think thats a good idea, like you said you havent even met him.
Plus, he likes your best friend right now, he is not interested in you, sorry, dont know why your getting into this. At your age there is nothing better in my opinion than a true friend, they are there for you and give you memories to smile and laugh about for a life time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2012): I don't think there is much you can do. Firstly, he likes your best friend, so he's not interested in you. Secondly, you have a boyfriend, so your not in a position to be going after anyone else. Your choices are you either break up with your boyfriend, let this boy know you like him, probably get rejected by him, and possibly lose your best friend (if she likes him back or even if she doesn't like him) she may see it as a betrayal. Or you make the decision to get over this boy, distance yourself from him and not talk to him so much, and if you do love your boyfriend, focus on him and your relationship with him.
Personally I would stop talking to my friend's ex so much, because I really don't see it going anywhere good.
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