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writes: I am 18 and I really like someone who's 16 and male. I don't know what to do. Is he too young for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2005): I don't think it matters how old the guy is. If you like him tell him when you're ready. Don't rush. Take your time. Maybe he might like you back.
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reader, dan102938 +, writes (16 May 2005):
Now I know this is just coming from a 12 year old guy but I do have some advice. All I say is, as long as you love or care for one another than it's okay I think. You're like who cares what a 12 year old kid says, right? I really like this girl who's 16 and it's not really stopping our friendship but it's getting a little bit more of a relationship every day and it's getting even more noticeable every day that we are so far away in age. I hope you have good luck with your problem and everything so peace out.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (20 April 2005):
 When I was 16 I started dating a guy who was 14. It didnt seem odd in the slightest as we got on pretty well and had alot in common. I guess we probably grew together as we lasted 6 years, and they were a more or less happy six years. Unfortunately we broke up for various reasons, but im not sure Whether we just faded out as we started so young, But you never know unless you try! But I would defo say go for it!
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reader, confused_gurl +, writes (20 April 2005):
Well, it depends on the guy's maturity level, and yours. Because if you both act your age then it could be a problem. But if you think it can work out, and your maturity levels arent all that different then go for it! If you guys end up long-term then by the time you are in ur 20's or higher, then the age doesn't matter too much.
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reader, rainbowshoes +, writes (20 April 2005):
If you like this boy and he likes you there is nothing to stop you from engaging in a relationship. Be aware though that although 2 years may not seem like a large age gap while you are both so young there may be a wider gap of maturity. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2005): Too young for .....? Be friends, enjoy being together and learn from each other. Just be a responsible eighteen year old. No need to rush, or ruin your early years with preventable yet unnecessary problems (pregnancy, venereal disease, AIDS, jealousy, control, etc.) Be smart!
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