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female
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30-35,
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writes:Last weekend I was at my friend's (C) house with some other people and I met a guy (A) there my friend knew from her old school.We got along really well and talked and kissed for hours.But then one of my other friends (B, A's best friend) got a little angry and it turned out that he likes me.B and I haven't spoken since.A added me on Facebook and we exchanged phone numbers.We've been talking a lot.A said lots of sweet things about me to C, really lovely things.But I've also heard that A sometimes sleeps around.I don't want to hurt B, because he's my friend, but I don't like him in that way. He hasn't even said anything about it though, so I don't know if it was a drunken splurge or something.I really like A, and everyone says that he feels the same about me, but I'm still a little apprehensive.What do you think I should do? :S
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reader, Zanie  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Well, if you like "A" then go for it. However, if he has the reputation of a player, be weary. Keep your heart guarded for a bit and dont give up the goods for a long while. If he truly wants you for you, then he will wait to get sexual. If he is a player, he will want it up front and then will just bail. Once he proves himself to you and you feel as though you can trust him, then go further.
As for "B", if you don't have feelings for him, you dont. He will just have to accept it. If he's pretending like he never said anything, then dont bring it up. But if he's being distant and mean, then just explain that you care for him so much and want to remain friends with him, but that you don't feel that way for him. He may take it hard, but sometimes the truth hurts.
Good Luck!
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