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writes:I've been friends with this guy that I really like for ages, but I'm also friends with his ex and the three of us are in the same class, what should I do?
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reader, Berry-boo +, writes (16 February 2016):
There's nothing wrong with going out with someone if they're friends with your ex. He's your ex for a reason,so he might not be bothered about you liking his friend. I have an ex who goes out with my best mate and I don't care, I moved on and I feel happy for them both. Your ex may fel jealous if you get with his friend, that's normal we all get those feelings. Do be aware if you go out with his friend and break up they may slag you off to their mates and make up rumours. But with them being 16-17 they are mire mature so they may not do that.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (23 January 2016):
 I guess it depends how much you value friendships and just how ex is his ex, last week or last year? Time is a major factor here in addition to the circumstances like who broke up with who. Some people couldn't careless whereas others take a real dim view of friends going out with friends ex's. Has this boy indicated to you that he might be interested? Personally I wouldn't advise you it is a great idea because it can kinda get messy. But if you really want to know why not ask your friend if she is cool with it. Just have a good think before doing anything yet. Maybe start by asking how you would feel if it was you. Good luck I hope it all works out.
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