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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I lied to the guy that I fancy basically because I have never done anything with a guy, we had a quick snog, I wasn't very good (first time), he stopped and asked me what was up, I just said that it had been a while and my last boyfriend wasn't very nice to me and it has made me shy around the opposite sex which was a lie. Do you think he will ask more questions, I feel bad for lying but I don't want him to know how inexpereinced i am, because it is just suppose to be a bit of fun according to him not me, I want somehting different but because I like him so much I just went with the flow and deep down I know it will probably end up going all wrong.
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reader, Anyquestion +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Next time you see him explain that you lied because you felt stupid about having no experience.If things turn serious later on in the relationship you will regret that you didn't tell him the truth!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): I think you did really good. You kept you head in the throws of a deep snog. Well done.
Don't worry about it going wrong that is just nerves. We all feel like that (well ok just me) the first time with someone new. We just don't know if it will work and if we say touch, move wrongly it will fall apart like expensive glass. Luckily we aren't made of glass - and these things we get stronger through....
Just snog and snog and then some more, find out what he likes, try different methods.... Have faith you are normal.
Don't worry about the white lie you can always tell the truth in a bit - its really not important.
Hugs.Star.x.
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