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Not having orgasm from sex. What's this about?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been having sex for over a year now. when I have sex I always feel pleasure from it but never have an orgasm. when I masturbate I always orgasm, quite quickly. Whats this all about?...

A.   7 July 2009: im exactly the same, its simply because your fella doesnt know exactly how you like it, and also, he cant reach the same angles that you do just tell him when hes doing his thing what you want, where u want him to touch you, how hard etc. us... (read in full...)

17 and having errection problems!

Q.   am a 17 year old boy and have been having erection problems for the last 6 months. About 6 month ago I tried to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time i got inside her but after awhile i got soft and coulnt goback in(it was on the beach and ...

A.   7 July 2009: being a female, whos fella has this problem i can fully relate the first time it happened we were having sex and i was really enjoying it, and as far as i was aware, so was he, next thing i knew he'd fell out, and couldnt get hard again this ha... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it?

Q.   My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it? What should we do during so it's not phone sex and not like watching porn? Due to work sometimes we have to be apart for a few weeks at a time and I really want to ...

A.   7 July 2009: why not try sending him some kinky pics in an email or text first, should get him in the mood to want to see more, then just request a few in return . . . after a while of this, ask him to get on cam, as long as you do too! and away you go ... (read in full...)

The bleeding is bad...What is going on here?

Q.   he made it bleed bad about three month ago with his fingers. it bled bad. now today he he didnt barely go in with his fingers and blood came gushing out. whats the problem?...

A.   7 July 2009: this depends on what protection your using, im on the injection (which stops your period) and when im due on, ill get a light bleeding if hes too rough with me or vigorous if you're using protection other than condoms (the pill, injection, pa... (read in full...)

24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!

Q.   I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just ...

A.   28 June 2009: i know everyone has said its wrong and hold a negative view, so what i am going to say will be highly unpopular. at 15, i too fell in love with a 24 year old teacher. (though id like to point out, when i met him at 14 he was training to be a tea... (read in full...)

I lied and told him that I had an orgasm but I really didn't

Q.   hi can someone please tell me what i do wrong do i not know what sex like everytime i have had sex with my ex i have not been able to orgasm is it me or is there something im not doing right he always seeems to be able to cum but i have told him i ...

A.   28 June 2009: i know exactly how you feel! my guy spent yeeeeears with the foreplay, and it was amazing!! and i mean, the best iv ever had, but still, no orgasm. i talked to my friend about it, and he said, just relax and enjoy yourself. i know this sounds... (read in full...)

Going down on my boyfriend makes me gag! Any tips?

Q.   Well this is kind of embaressing.. My boyfriend likes it when I go down on him, but it makes me gag! I don't know whats wrong with me, I think it could be the texture and i don't really like the taste either, I don't mind doing it with condoms tho...

A.   28 June 2009: this might sound daft, but honestly, take it into account!! if you act like your enjoying it, then you will begin to like it! i was like this at first with my fella, i wanted to, but, he'd told me that no girl had ever made him come from it, s... (read in full...)

Should I get my nipples pierced?

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to get my nipples pierced. I think it might be kind of sexy and am interested in getting it done. I'm a 34 DD (natural--no surgery). Does anyone know if it hurts a lot? Will my bra cover the nipple rings or will it be ...

A.   28 June 2009: iv had my nipple pierced since i was 15 (20 now) in which time i went from a 28C to a 28DD i can tell you, it doesnt hurt as much as your expecting, although it all depends on the individual. they do use a 'cooling' gel (which unfortunatl... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with him or is it me?

Q.   so here it goes...ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im very happy to say that we havnt had sex yet, im not ready yet. he has waited a long time too. even though we havnt had sex, we do have our "fun". our fun consists of dry sex kind of ...

A.   18 June 2009: my fella was like that, just be gentle but firm, keep the rhythm the same and try talkin dirty to him whilst doing it rubbing the section of skin between his balls and bum is really sensitve and hieghtens his orgasm enjoy yourself above a... (read in full...)

How can I talk sexy back to him?

Q.   my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy ...

A.   18 June 2009: it can be hard to get into, its much easier when your turned on and really wanting sex you should use lots of descriptive words, just tell him exactly what you want to do, how you'll do it, and how you want him to react for example tell him you... (read in full...)

Tutor- student relationship (love)

Q.   I'm almost 20 years old and im a student. when i first started my course 3 years ago i met this guy not knowing anything about him at the time, and i fell in love with him from the first moment i met him, hes nearly 30 yrs of age. and we'v had a few ...

A.   18 June 2009: iv had a 'relationship' with a tutor, and it was fantastic! the thrill and naughtyness of it all was such a turn on, and the fact it was forbidden made the sex so passionate and amazing. although my fella wasnt married. which i think is a huuuuu... (read in full...)

My horny friend!!!

Q.   okay well the other day me and my best friend were hanging out and we were messing around throwing pillows at each other and stuff then outta nowhere she tells me she's horny. I mean i was horny too i guess but didnt wanna say anything. then she ...

A.   18 June 2009: if you were turned on and like her, why wouldnt you kiss her back and let it go somewhere? i really dont understand what your question is babe, you should just enjoy yourself and have fun!!! if your both feeling the same why not enjoy a lil fun?... (read in full...)

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