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I lied about my photo and don't understand the guy's response

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Question - (20 February 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've recently been talking to this guy and I lied to him about my picture. I finally came clean and and he said to me "I'm disappointed in you, but I don't know if I can be." what exactly does that mean?

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A female reader, aAoa India +, writes (14 March 2011):

it's online .. no one is upfront about who they are.. so what i think he means is that he is disappointed in you but he isn't anyone close ( aka just online friend) so he is not sure if he has the right to be disappointed in you. but just ask him cos it really is very vague.. for the sake of not appearing stupid and drawing your own conclusions ask him.. if he doesn't answer then ask him if he meant it the way i've said and see what he says..

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (20 February 2011):

chigirl agony auntI think it's hard to understand people when they don't explain themselves properly. So why don't you ask him what exactly he means?

Or don't bother with him, you lied to him about your photo, Im guessing this was online and that you don't really know the guy well. So why care so much? Life is too short to get all worried about what some stranger online thinks of you.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2011):

He's weighing up in his mind whether you are worth the risk, or whether you will continue to lie to him.

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A female reader, Party rings United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2011):

He probably means he cant trust u like he did before.Sometimes u just have to tell the truth with boys and men because thats what they prefur.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011):

That he's disappointed that you lied to him but he also likes you so isn't sure if he's able to feel that way.

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