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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I think I am in love with my best friend.... she's a good year and a half older than me...and whenever I am at her place or she is at mine, we kiss and cuddle and tell each other we love each other....I'm just not quite sure what her love is....she spends all of her time with me...and is always touching me, and holding my hand...I'm really quite confused about what I should do, I mean if we have a relationship...and it ends, I can't lose herAnd when we kiss....it's like, there isn't anyone else in the world....just me and her...and I don't know how I should read that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Could be she sees you as a cuddle buddy or maybe her girlfriend. Ask her so you'll have a sense of direction and to make sure you two are on the same page. If it's cuddle buddy for her and girlfriend for you consider if you'll be able to cope with her putting an end to it one day when she gets a girl or boyfriend, which will put an end to the cuddling and kissing, etc. I'm have two cuddle buddies; no harm in it as long as everyone's on the same page and sexual barriers are kept erected and in place. It's all a matter of respect; no crossing lines so no one gets hurt or feels taken advantage of.
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (15 July 2011):
 I really wish I could just tell you the answer and make this so much easier for you but I can't. What you have to do is talk to her and ask her how she feels. In turn then tell her how you feel and that you don't want to lose her as she is an important part of your life.
Next time you are alone with her take the chance to talk, at first it will be awkward but it will be worth it. It will feel like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders. You will know will finally know where you stand with her. But honestly I do think that she cares for you judging from what you have said.
Let me know how you get on.
The best of luck sweetie,
BB x
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