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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now we're both 17.I know it won't last forever because I can feel it inside me if you know what I mean but what should I do?Should I keep going out with her to enjoy the time we have together or should I just end it now? Reply to this Question
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 You are still young and its understandable that you don't want to get commited into a relationship, however if you enjoy being with her then I suggest you keep going out with her. Good luck!
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reader, piggytoes1818  +, writes (3 December 2008):
It seems as though you are questioning the relationship, is everything going okay, are there any problems you both know of?What I would suggest is taking a break 17 is young for a long term relationship. Make it very clear to her that you arn't breaking up, you just want to take a break for a little while, or how long you want toAt 17 you are still developing your personality, and you arn't going to be the same person you are now in a few years. You seem to need time alone, and room to change and go to college and be on your own. In a few years she won't be the same person, and your intrested will change. These next few years are very important for finding out who you are, and having a girl friend and tie you down, and not allow you to be your own person.Let me know if this helps!
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reader, Ma Ma Sue +, writes (3 December 2008):
You are 17 you are still very young. Its alright if you are not in love with her. You like and that is all you need. Enjoy your time with her and any further girlsfriends that you will have.At 17 a realtionsip should be about fun. Love complicates things. As long as you are not giving her false hope and she understands where you are coming from thats alright. If she wants to be serious and clearly you dont, then leave and find someone who is up for fun until you feel ready to get serious.
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