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I kissed another man, but then my boyfriend found out about him! Do I keep the new man or try to get back with my boyfriend?

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Question - (30 June 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi i am a 19year old girl.i was in love with a guy for around 5years.he too loved me a lot.but now things are going wrong.nowadays our communication ends up in fight.he uses literally bad words at me.i hate it.but in some corner of my heart i feel that there is some love for him. We used to be happy together.we used to hug and sit for hours and kiss like hell.but nowadays he is keeping a distance to me.he is not talking properly to me.i feel like he is avoiding me.but he himself has told he will not leave me at any cost.but his harsh words flash in my mind everytime.i can not do my work steadily.

Then I met my old friend who loved me lot.i had refused him in the past because i was already commited.i know this guy still loves me even it is 2years since I turned him down. Now I felt like spending time with this guy.i used to call him at nights. he came to my home last week and we kissed each other. At that moment i felt my heart had gone with him.

I was sure my boyfriend would not get to know about this.i bought a new sim card and used that to speak to the new guy.the new one already knew that i was commited but then he was sure about his decision.he loves me. My boyfriend found out about the sim-card today. i know what i did was wrong but then i couldnt get rid of this new guy.what i did was i broke the sim card.

what shall i do now? should i continue to talk with this new guy? or shall i throw this new stuff and go back to my boyfriend? will he accept me back?

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