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female
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36-40,
*il-kitten-02
writes:My boyfriend and I broke up weeks ago. I keep trying to move on, but I feel sabotaged. I mean when I talk to another man, the man will not call or he acts as if he does not know me. The other night, I dreamt of my ex and it felt so real. The dream was that he came to me!I want to see him, but I think he does not want to see me.Am I doing this to myself or what?
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reader, phoenix85 +, writes (9 November 2008):
honey u didnt tell us why u broke up and who wanted that?so i can just make general advises.i think u should call him,i dont know if he cheated u or not but just call him at least u wont be thinking what is he doing,or does he still interested in u or did he move on.the best strategy is honesty.call him ask what u want to learn,make it clear.dont try to read the underlines.make a clear speach with him.so if he is also interested in u,u both will have a second chance to work things out,if he moved on at least u will now it clearly so u can go to the next stage which is healing:)
good luck,let us know the updates:)
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