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*aran
writes:i am married for the second time and have four children i love my husband he is 1 in a million, but i cant stop straying to different men, i dont no what to do i think about it all the time, what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (4 October 2007):
 I totally agree with uncle phil, phone or text sex is definatly cheating just because it is not pysical does not make it any better, if you are honest with yourself how would you view it if it was your husband that was doing it, would you just turn around and say 'it's ok because it's over the phone'?
We could all give our number out to people at times but you just need to be able to turn round and say 'sorry i'm not interested i'm married' and just walk away from the situation and if you can't do that maybe it would be faire on you and your husband if you left your marriage.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Yes, it's cheating. You may not have actually had any exchange of bodily fluids, but the thought was there, and that's not good. You're not concentrating 100% on your husband and your marriage will probably fall apart soon if you carry on like this. Yes, I know it's fun and exciting, but there will be problems ahead and the grief will far outweigh the pleasure.
If you want your marriage to last you've got to stop this now. If you want out of it, carry on and it will happen sooner than you ever imagined it.
Phil
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reader, saran +, writes (3 October 2007):
saran is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI meet a man at work the other day he gave me his mobile number, and while my husband was at work we had phone sex and again after we had sex text, i dont think this is cheating but i spoke to a friend and they said it is what do you lot think
thanks saran
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reader, saran +, writes (3 October 2007):
saran is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks uncle phil i wish i was then at least i would have an answer, but i havent actally had sex with any of then just other stuff
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reader, Skatanic +, writes (30 September 2007):
I completely agree with below. Don't lie to him, he doesn't deserve that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): Possibly nymphomania. Dictionary definition:
"Abnormally strong sexual desire in a heterosexual woman, especially when directed at a large number of men"
Apart from that, I agree with the other two.
Phil
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reader, flower girl +, writes (29 September 2007):
You love your husband and he is one in a million, but there must be something lacking for you to feel this way, so you need to try and indentify what it is and go from there babe.
Take care.xx.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (29 September 2007):
 If your unhappy in a relationship then get out as its not fair on your partner, if you do love him then you have to realise what you could loose and is it really worth it hun
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