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writes:Should I bother with this girl anymore? She has basically lied to me since I first met her about who she is I guess to impress me. The thing is now I think she is someone that she's not and of course I feel hurt and confused. She has apologized but that was basically after she got 'caught' How can I trust her after this Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): I get that your mad, but what you really need to ask yourself is: if someone else had posted this exact question, what would I say? And: should i conpletely throw away a girl just because she has a self confidence issue? Honestly, be her friend. She needs help. Help her realize she's an amazing person all by herself. And maybe someday you'll get back together. The sad truth is not all girls are very confident, and alot of them that appear to be put on a facade. Theres too much preassure on a girl to be "perfect" and you need to tell her that she would've been perfect just the way she is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): Dont be so hard on her. She probably was trying to impress you because she really liked you. Alot of people cant share stuff coz its hard for them to and their afraid of how the other person will react to them or what they have to say. Try and create an atmosphere where she can be herself around you without pretending. She sounds sorry and if she is, then tell her to prove it by being more open in future and coming to you about things. Relationships are hard work and its hard finding the right person-so you should at least give it another try, unless she cheated on you, then she doesnt deserve a second chance.
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