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writes:Hi OK Im (19) Ex (23) the girl is(24)ages of us to understand how wrong this is!! ...I would like for some one who has been in a situation some what like mine and how they coped through it... OK My boyfriend(NOw X) broke up and left me after 15 months We never really had any big problems...well long story short he left me For a married girl with 2 kids... Mind you.. The husband of this girl is his best friend since they were 6... now thats messed up!! Its one thing if i didnt know the girl but she became my friend first So we could hang out because of the guys... My question is how do i just get them out of my head!! Its like i sit here and just think of all the things i want to do to them to make them suffer! Ive been doing things, making new friends and Have NOT talked to that nasty couple.. I know i can do better! Im glad we are not together! I just want to talk some one who has gotten over it and is doing better!! P.S. I am a firm believer in Karma!!!
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reader, Ana123 +, writes (5 October 2009):
Ana123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWOW Thank you soo much!! im doing better... but this passed weekend he called me from another phone and called me some mean names mind you he was sh*% faced... so my thoughts are bac but only a little and im trying to push them out.... The only thing about this girl he's with is not (Angela Jolie) I was.. She has no looks what ever... shes got acne and is fat.. It makes me sick! but thats why they are the nasty couple lol... well thanks again and im happy for you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): I kind of know how you feel. My husband was cheating on me before we split up. I never saw her, but sometimes the things that your imagination can make up are worst then reality. It has been 8 months and I do not think about it as often, but for the longest time I could not get the images of my husband and a woman that looks like Angela Jolie out of my head! I did not want to do anything to them, but then again I moved 3,000 miles away so that would not have been an option for me. I think that if you just keep yourself busy and try some new things that you never would have tried before, time will pass and the images will fade. Since my move I have found a new job and gotten back into school. You are right there is a such thing as karma, but you can help it along by becoming a better person then you ever where (not that I am saying you were not a great person to begin with),but just think how he will feel when he "wakes up" to realize that not only has he lost his best friend, but you have more going for you and you are doing better without him! That is karma at it's best. Just stay focused on you.
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