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writes:I really don't understand what is wrong with me! I just can't get over this guy! We were only together for a matter of months but I really fell for him in a big way! It's been 1 and a half weeks since it ended really badly (his fault-he cheated) and we never had any more contact and I think the other girl stayed with him.I bumped into him today and he said he was sorry that it ended the way it did. I can try to kid myself that I don't care but I WAS bothered to see him. My whole body felt heavy afterwards. It was kind of the emotion of seeing him again. I know that sounds really silly! I never want to be with him again after he was such a jerk. I just wish I didn't care about him any more!!!Why havn't I moved on? I just want to feel neutral towards him! Reply to this Question
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reader, Mummy08 +, writes (2 April 2009):
 its only been a week and a half since you left him and you obviously cared about him even the shortest relationships need healing time after a break up you will find that it gets easier and you'll meet someone new my advice to you is to stay busy go out with friends and when you start to think about him stop and think of something else however dont not talk about him if you want to you'll drive your friends potty but it will get it off your chest so that your not bottling it up.
hope this helps
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (2 April 2009):
Its been a short time that's why...give it time and trust me u will get over him. U don't need him because after a few months and he hurt u there are some good men who are looking for a girl like u but u can't waist ur time on losers he will do it to her so look at it this way she isn't gaining anything. And soon when u find another guy u will laugh at the thought of u wanting him or missing him. Don't call him and don't except his call he might call and try and hook up. Don't fall for it. Good luck keep busy and get all cute and go out with some friends..have fun
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reader, enjoimx  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Time and distance.
It takes much longer than a week. Even if the relationship only lasted a couple months, you admittedly fell for him, gave him your trust, and he broke it. So feel the sadness, write what you feel, talk to friends, get alot of excercise, and try to avoid any mention or sight of him. Never check his myspace either. The goal is to not keep opening the wounds. Im going through the same thing right now.
Good luck
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