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writes:I was wondering if anyone could share some opinions on this and if i'm expecting too much!Ok so met this guy (kinda knew who he was before but not really to chat to) he took me number, we were texting all week he was always asking questions about me to get to know me, he works as a teacher so he said he v busy works long hours and girls get annoyed that he works hard and plays hard. Anyway met up the next weekend a few of us for drinks, it went well and he seemed to be interested by his body language, the next week he text everyday to ask how my day went etc but never asked to see me until the thursday, we met up again over the weekend just me and him and he text after to say it was great to see me! The following week he text everyday and asked always what i was up to but never actually asked to see me. At the weekend he left it til about 9 at night to text so i ignored, then the next day he phoned about 3 times before i picked up and again was askin what i was up to that day and that night, i had plans with the girls so told him this. Then he called again that night and we had a nice chat, he was saying the last couple of girls he had seen casually only lasted a couple of weeks as they always wanted to know where they stood and what was going on and he got bored, but then saying he would actually like to get into another realtionship now! So i just bit the bullet and said it would be nice to catch up 1 day this week before he goes on hol, he said definately but again no day set. I didn't hear from him yesterday. I just think if a guy likes u he will be in touch everyday! am i wrong? do i need to be more patient?? i cant quite work him out!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 February 2010):
I can. Just from your description, this guy sounds like he's only really interested in anything casual. He's a bit of a player by the sounds of it, and doesn't seem totally interested in you. He got bored far too quickly, and it sounds like he's already bored again. That's not your fault, that's him. I think you can do better.
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