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writes:I just started dating this guy but I am scared of getting my heart broken again. He has made a lot of mistakes in his life and it scares me. He just got out of jail for drugs and got divorced like eight months ago. He is a really good person though and I believe that he is trying to change. He said that jail was good for him because he started praying again and I know he is trying to be better. I feel like I am supposed to be in his life and want to help him. I am just scared because I am falling in love with him. The more I am with him the harder this is getting. Should I go with my intuition and keep seeing him or should I do the logical thing and get out before I get hurt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): If you feel that you should leave then leave but if you love him and you think you are supposed to be with him then stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): I think that everyone has the capacity to change for the better. Certainly I would be cautious but if you have feelings for him, you see yourself happy with him then dont let his past stop you. A past is just that-past-and people do learn from their mistakes. He could be right about jail changing him, I am sure it is a scary thing to be locked away like that. Also if you are with him and a positive influence that has to help as well!
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