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writes:OK, I'll start from the beginning. Me and my girlfriend were happy together, we loved each other etc, she even told me that she wanted to have a family with me in the future and that she'd never leave me and I felt the same way for her. Anyway, she recently left me saying that she doesn't have time for a relationship etc because she's working 7 days a week and has 2 horses to look after. I'm hurt and confused, got a hundred things running through my mind. I really do love her and prepared to wait for her but I can't help but think there's something she's not telling me.I did ask her this and told her to be honest and she told me that was the only reason and that if things work out i'll be the first to know etc.I just dont know what to think. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (17 May 2009):
Guitarist is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your messages. i'm going to move on and enjoy my life and listen to what all my friends have said. there's someone out there for me. just gotta keep my chin up. thank you again.
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (17 May 2009):
Guitarist is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFound out she was seeing someone else. destroyed.
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (10 April 2009):
Guitarist is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni told her that i'd see the horses with her but she said it wouldn't be fair on me because she wouldn't be able to give me her full attentio.
she had the horses from the beginning but she gained all the extra days and hours of work since we got together.
and if she lost interest why would she say she'd get back with me if things work out? surely if she loves me she wouldn't lie to me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is code for her losing interest. Work and horses do not a legitimate break up make.
Did she gain two horses and a 7 day job since you met?
When a woman tells a man she won't see him anymore because of job and pets, she's lying and trying to cover up an interest in another man. In my opinion.
Remember to not take this personally - I'm really sorry about your luck - at least you found out early on. Hang in there and take care -
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