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I just don't understand him...???

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Question - (23 January 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *andomSmileys writes:

Ok, I took the advice given last time and broke up with my boyfriend, but my best friend is still confusing me. I can't understand him, he has a nickname for me, which i'm not going to post in case he sees this, but he hardly ever calls me by my name.

I have asked him to use my name but he doesn't understand that it hurts for him to treat me like I'm not a person..

He calls me every night and sulks when I get mad at him and hang up, he talks to me for ages and shows me videos on youtube that will make me laugh if i'm feeling down and when I'm ill he'll comfort me, we're really close, but sometimes i wonder where the line is? I love him, i know that, but he confuses me as to what his feelings are.

He calls me cute things like 'his queen' but then when i start laughing because its confusing he says 'just kidding' really quickly.

He hates it whenever i compliment him or say something nice about him, and he always wants to talk about me but never about him.

I just dont understand him.

I want to tell him how I feel but I dont know how, every time i get close he changes the subject or says 'shut up i dont like people saying nice things'.

Help me?

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