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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I apparently don't have a real active imagination when it comes to fantasies. My boyfriend is always asking me what my fantasies are and I really can't think of anything. I don't know why, maybe it's cause I never really thought about it. When I was with my (now) ex-husband he used to force me to have sex with him every night or he wouldn't let me sleep, maybe that's why I just don't have fantasies about sex. I love having sex with my boyfriend though. Is there something wrong with me? If someone would be so kind as to name a few of their fantasies or any sexual experiences that were outstanding please let me know, maybe I can try some of your tidbits with my boyfriend and spruce up our sex life a bit. (And so can some of the other readers reading this. :) )
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): I do not think your search for fantasies will be found in porn, because women are not as visual as men are. I would suggest however that you google erotic stories and read around to see what you like and you can imagine yourself in the situations which will bring your fantasies to mind. And maybe even to life. :) my suggestion www.literotica.com
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reader, pie303 +, writes (25 April 2008):
 you can always look to porn to get some ideas. looking at porn and seeing things that you like or might like to try will help.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 April 2008):
 From a man's point of view, I do not think that you are unusual. Women are not quite as visual as men for turn-ons, and I've read and been told that the female perspective on sex is based more on reality, sensuality, attention and togetherness. In my experience, women love tenderness and closeness, like hugging, kissing and "time" with their man. Some of us men enjoy all that as well.
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