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writes:I insulted the girl I was datingI thought she was cheating and made alot of terrible insults to her and later she told me she wasn't cheating and then I said I was sorry for saying those things. Will she forgive me? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Tell her that your intentions were to feel more connected to her, however your reaction to your suspicions pushed her away and you regretted it. One time I got very mad with my boyfriend because he was counting condoms and one time he said my body was this or that, I looked pregnant, and blah blah blah I must be with somebody else when he couldn't reach me by phone. One time I had had enough, I broke down crying and told him how angry I was. He hugged me and promised me not to do that ever again, and he never did. Once you cross that stage of not doubting her loyalty, you would feel closer than ever. To this day, I talked to my boyfriend about why he would suspect me, he was still trying to blame on stress and problems with family. It's like it's almost a shame to admit that you want loyalty from someone. Don't be like my boyfriend. Tell her honestly that you suspect her because of your insecurity and your need to know that she would be loyal to you. She can only be loyal to you if you give her the reason to, such as trusting her and making her feel comfortable with you.
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