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I ignored this read flag and here I am - having to forget him, but how?

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Question - (15 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2008)
A female Australia age 51-59, *LostinLuv writes:

I was happily dating a man for the past 6 weeks. We shared many romantic dinners together, saw each other at least 4 times a week and emailed each other daily. When we first met, he talked alot about his past with women and his problem of having feelings for more than one woman. I knew this was a red flag but gave the benefit of the doubt since we were together quite alot. He is sensitive and caring. However, I went overseas for just 3 days last week and he tld me today he met someone else in the days I was gone. He told me he fell for her very hard and quickly and thinks it's true love. I am so hurt and shocked as I cared for him so much - more than he deserved.

Please tell me how I can move on.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (15 December 2008):

DoubleM agony auntYou already know the answer to this - you were "played" by womanizer who is "sensitive and caring" enough to have given you a fair warning. Do not hate or regret, just accept it and replace him.

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A male reader, Ed1337 United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2008):

Ed1337 agony auntI know the feeling :-( I met someone who I thought was very special, texting each other almost constantly, at work and during the evening for almost 3 weeks. Then suddenly the ex shows his ugly face and wants to get back together and she didn't know who to be with, so I walked away :-(.

I found the best way to move on is by getting to know other people, in the hope that I will find someone who deserves me. Anyone who plays with your heart isn't the right person for you, so just be glad it only lasted 6 weeks and you can now move on and find someone better.

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