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I heard Mom and Dad having sex and now I'm disgusted! How can I deal with this?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ougatxxx writes:

i need some help on this one well one night i was lying in my bed and I heard my mum and dad having sex i then felt really sick looking at them the next day i felt disgusted with them. is it normal to feel this way towards them Im to scared to talk to them about it if anyone has any advice on this it would be truly really helpful!

Thanks x

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A male reader, Hellboy283 United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2009):

I have exactly the same problem. Thats why im on this site. I was in bed, playing on a games console, when I heard the bed squeaking. I knew what was happening. The next day i wouldnt talk to them. It just really makes me kind of hate them because, they're my mum and dad. They are the ones that cuddle you and be your friends, not have horny sex. I just went into their room and found 24 condoms???? What the hell can I do???? I really dont wanna talk to them and I keep avoiding them. They disgust me!

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A female reader, CGFE Australia +, writes (18 November 2009):

CGFE agony auntI feel for you, my friend and I got locked in my parents wardrobe once and were still in their while they had sex!

I think im gonna puke just thinking bout it!

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A male reader, CoolAndCoolest India +, writes (11 September 2009):

you should be happy that they do love each other. on hearing their noise. if you feel it ok, just good. or if you feel not ok, then take measures not to let sound reaching your room.

don't be embarassed. from your side allow them a lot of privacy. if you are close with your mom, just indicate to her. that's it. no big problem, you are also a grown up girl.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009):

Well, do bear in mind that's how you came to be alive in the first place.

And count your blessings that at least it's EACH OTHER you heard them f**king.

Best of luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009):

hi, one day i heard my parents doing it. i was shocked and the next day, i looked at them and i felt sick!! i was scared to say anything to them. Its normal, just try talking to them, it helped for me... now, i find it quite funny! now and again i hear it and i bang on the wall. It makes them feel guilty and its funny!!=-] Hope it helps!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009):

Are you serious?? Wow, get over yourself. So your parents are fucking, so what?? Its normal. It ain't like they're fighting or killing each other. If they wanna get busy, then go to a farther room and watch tv or go on the internet or just ignore it. Don't disturb them or do anything retarded like the dumbass above me said to do. If it really bothers you that badly, then just go outside or do something. Geezz

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

my daughter is 15 and she knows her dad and i have sex OFTEN.

sex is so special in a marriage, it bonds both hb and wife. a kiss, constant flirting, kisses, open affection - if parents displayed this more often in front of their kids it would be great.

juyst be glad your parents ar still doing it. it normal and healthy and it gets rid of any teenage stress problems we may be facing at that moment (lol)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

Ya, that's definitely a TMI moment.

The fact is, though, that a happy marriage includes sex, even for people old enough to have a teenager. They're just plain gonna like each other better afterward, and that makes for a happier home.

I know the thought of it is completely gross. But you're going to have to grow up a bit and accept that it's an important part of their lives.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (11 August 2009):

Frank B Kermit agony auntYour parents having sex is a good thing.

It is when they don't want to have sex with each other that you should be worried. Count yourself lucky.

Hearing your parents, walking in on them, hey it happens.

No need to talk to them about it.

-Frank Kermit

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

i had the same problem but with mum and her boyfriend. So i knocked on their door and told them to shutup and i happened again so i did it again...eventually it worked...also if you are awake don't pretend to be asleep...if they're creating noise why can't you? Stick on your music and if they complain you could just come back with a comeback like oh sorry am i keeping you up seeing as you both did the other night!!!

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