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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi...I am a very pretty girl with a good job. The one thing that I know I am is a bit weird. Once you get to know me though you will know that I am the most lovable person with a big heart. However, I don't come off as your normal person and say the most normal things. That's why I think I scare most guys on dates. The never stick around long enough to figure me out. What can I do to fix this? It has become part of my personality. I don't know if it was because of a childhood filled with peer pressure that made me gain a shy personality. I feel maybe out of shyness I blurt out stuff? I give too much info too in the beginning-like on the first few dates and I basically am very honest. I don't know if I should change myself? I don't want to be "weird".
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reader, Fredthefrog  +, writes (23 May 2012):
Boys should like you for who you are, so if you consider youself as 'weird' then you've just gotta make boys like the 'weird' side of you!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 I don't think you should change yourself. At the end of the day you are the person that you are and I am a strong believer that you should never change for anybody. Honesty is always a great quality to have, never think for one minute that it is not. You should not put yourself down by calling yourself weird. At the end of the day we all have different personalities. These guys who didn't get your personality where obviously just not the men for you.
On the first couple of dates though, don't give to much away, it is always good to leave a guy wanting to find out more. So answer any questions that they have, and ask them questions, but also try to remain mysterious and show that you have so much more to give.
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