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hiya everybody i am from the manchester area and i am currently engaged to my fiance of a very long time lol.

i like to help ppl as best i can becuase i have been through alot in my life and dont want ppl to get the same way as me.

How do I get the bullying to stop?! I'm so fed up!!

Q.   i'm being bullied in school and i'm fed up of it i get in trouble from things i didn't do and its really getting to me i don't know how to stop the bullying i want to stop them i've told my mum and she's like had a complain with the school but its ...

A.   7 December 2006: hiya i think that telling your mum and her telling the school would of been the best thing but if you react to bullies they do it all the more, so if you dont react the way they want you to they will get bored and go on to the next person but mayb... (read in full...)

She has a problem with me still being legally married - I have to wait until I file divorce

Q.   Ok, here it goes... I've been dating this girl since early July. The two of us have a really great time together but she can't seem to connect physically with me. She mentioned something about having a problem with the fact that I'm still legally ...

A.   7 December 2006: hiya well i think that you should try talking to her telling her that you are not interested in your ex wife and the one you want is her! it will be hard because a girl likes to think that a man is hers and while you are still married legally she ... (read in full...)

I have a fiancee and a child but-there's this other guy. Do I stay or go?

Q.   Well i have been with my fiancee for 2 years and we have a 1 yr old child together. When we first got together i realized i knew my fiancess best friend from a couple months before i had actually met my fiance! well we would talk once in a while and ...

A.   25 November 2006: hiya well i think its wrong to stay with your partner just for the child because its you that gets messed up in the end! the child will still get to see dad if he wants and if not then it his loss. i think you should go if you want to go you cant... (read in full...)

How do you know when a boy fancies you?

Q.   hi im 16 and im friends with this boy. I wanna know if he fancies me without asking him. But how do u know when a boy fancies u? i mean he flirts wiv me, pokes me, pushes into me gently... but he doesnt seem to notice me in the corridors or he ...

A.   16 November 2006: hiya some guys just flirt for somthing to do and to impress there mates, but theres always little signs like flirting etc that could mean that he fancies you. just because he dosent look for you in the corridors dosent mean he dosent like you it c... (read in full...)

He looks miserable, and so am I. Should I have another go with my ex?

Q.   Do I try one last time with my ex? After 7 months apart I met up with my ex recently and was shocked to see him looking a state and he appeared to be really miserable.... I realised even though he hurt me greatly after finishing our 6 year ...

A.   16 November 2006: hiya i personally wouldnt go bk if i had been in the situation i did it with my ex and it just gets worse than the first time. i wouldnt advise you to go and get back with him even thought your heart says that you should but you just have a think,... (read in full...)

I feel sick when thinking of doing sexual things with guys. Am I not over my ex?

Q.   I'll do anything sexually with the guy I've been on and off with for the past year, nothing grosses me out. But now it's over (again) I want to try and move on. I can kiss other guys and i've gone as far as touching a guys penis, but the thought of ...

A.   16 November 2006: hiya i thought that i would never do anything with another guy when i split up with my first b/f which i lost my viginity with but believe me after time it will change. i met another guy now and i am totaly comforatble with him and i am engaged ... (read in full...)

I've known him for 6 years - does he really care about me?

Q.   hi how do u know if a boy really cares for u? im 16 and have a friend tht always comes up 2 me and pokes me and teases me and flirts wiv me. do u think he cares about me a lot? i have known him for about 6 years. ...

A.   16 November 2006: hiya i think he does care about you becuase he takes the time out to flirt etc with you and also if you have known him for soooo long then if he didnt like you he would of just got board and moved on wouldnt he! take the time for this guy he does... (read in full...)

Can I reduce the pain of losing my virginity by using my fingers?

Q.   Right, I'm quite scared about losing my virginity! But if I finger myself regularly will this make it hurt less? ...

A.   16 November 2006: hiya yeah it will becuase you havent had a penis up there before it will be tight so if you finger yourself it will loosin it ... (read in full...)

What causes nipples to be hard or soft?

Q.   hi this might b a stupid question but y r womens nipples sometimes hard and sometimes soft? or is this just mine or is it normal?...

A.   16 November 2006: hiya this is absolutely normal, nipples get hard when you are cold or in a sexual mood but nipples are soft when your hot. its just part of the womens body mens nipples do it too.... (read in full...)

I need to go on the pill but mom wont agree !

Q.   hi, i was wondering if anyone (female) would have advice for me i am a 15 year old girl and lately my pms is incredibly painful. i have cramps for weeks leading up to my pms just to have that last up to 7-8 days of heavy flow with even worse cram...

A.   15 November 2006: hiya my periods was like this and i went on the pill at 14 years old its only normal for a girl to be this way periods react in different ways in different bodies. i think that you should talk to your mum and tell her that you cant stand the p... (read in full...)

How do you know its love?

Q.   how do i know if i am in love with my boyfriend? ...

A.   15 November 2006: hiya darling, i think that only you will know if your in love with your boyfriend becuase love is a feeling that only you can describe, love is like when your boyfriend has his arms around you and you get a warm feeling in your belly or heart an... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a girl ......

Q.   Ladies. what does it mean when a girl smiles at you and sits next to you even if there are other seats...

A.   31 October 2006: hiya i think she likes you and fancies you lots and lots maybe if you like her you could get a relationship going xxxx ... (read in full...)

My Mom as this annoying way of comparing her figure to mine! What should I do?

Q.   My mum and I have very different figures, she's got a small bum, and thin legs, and no chest, whereas I've got a large bum and larger thighs, small waist and large bust. However, I'm happy with my body. I like having a more womanly shape, however my ...

A.   29 October 2006: hiya i think your mum is jealous of you having a more womenly shape and just seems to put you down hoping that you will change it. lads like more womenly shape especially perk bums and bust so she might think of it in that way but she could al... (read in full...)

Opinions please .... I'm 14 and he's 15 and we are getting to 3rd base!!!

Q.   okay, wat is everyone's oppinion on this, me n my bf av been together for 6 months, he is 15 n im almost 14, we trust each other n he really loves me n i love him more than anything.i av gone to 3rd base with him (sucked him off) n he has gone to ...

A.   29 October 2006: hiya having sex and stuff is not good at your age becuase your body isnt ready for it and young girls often get used and abused with in the sexual environment. he probably is nervous about his perfomance or maybe he hasnt even been able to cum y... (read in full...)

I think she likes me

Q.   How to tell if sum1 likes u? Im 13 and male and theres this girl in school who i think likes me. Is there any easy way to tell? We're friends as well if that helps......

A.   28 October 2006: hiya, i think that if she likes you she would flirt although she could be flirting with you without meaning to do it as some girls it just comes natural to them and dont often realise but she could just be being friendly. you should try hinting ... (read in full...)

I have touched my sister

Q.   i love my sister,she is younger than me with 10 years she is 26 , i had touched her twice during her sleeping and she had feel me but she made her self sleeping,and we touched each other in the swimming pool,but as we having fun in the water, please ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i dont think this is right for family's to do this, how ever you cant help who you fall in love with but i think you should try and get out of this becuase a lot of people would not like what your doing. i think both of you are in the wrong he... (read in full...)

Do girls like it when a guy plays with their hair?

Q.   i just wanna know do girls like it when guys play with their hair? i usually play with this girls hair. she never say's anything to me she doesn't move away, just she like it? how do i know if she likes it or not? any other flirting tips? i'm ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya my boyfriend plays with my hair and i love it as most girls do its the little things like this what make girls feel special honestly if you like this girl then playing with her hair and showing her affection will get you where you want to be. ... (read in full...)

Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss

Q.   Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss and make out? What is appropriate for this age group....

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i dont think that this is wrong to be kissing at this age as long as you dont go further. if you are in a relationship dont be pushed into anything.... (read in full...)

I broke his heart and left him. Now I am heartsick at the idea of him finding someone else! Why am I this way?

Q.   I was with a guy for nearly 7 years and was so happy with him. We moved in together and things started to change after about a year. I started to notice things about him that i could not stand and i began to feel bored of the routine and the ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i think you cant get over him becuase you still have feelings for him it might not be love but just a little something like a flame, but also you could just be so used to being with him after so many years that you cant get out or over it. ... (read in full...)

We stopped being friends and sleeping together when he got a new girlfriend til the other night...Whats going on???

Q.   I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. We then had a complicated and stupid situation of being sex buddies/friends. He said he wanted to stay single and so do I, even though I know that if he wanted to give us another go i'd jump at the chance. On ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya, he maybe was scared of commitment or he maybe felt that he wanted something new or he may of been feeling sad and thought that he had made a wrong decision that he split with you and this other girl came along and at the time he may of been... (read in full...)

I've never cum

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going out for 1 year now. She doesn't really like to give me head but she has started to do it more...anyways out of about 10 times I've never cum...what can i tell her to do to make it better? I don't know what to ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i think you should just say when she is doing it like just say its huirting that way just do it this way....... (how ever you want it) she probably gets mad because she is trying to please you and she might feel that she isnt doing it good ... (read in full...)

I need more attention from my fiancee..what should I do?

Q.   hi, i'm hoping for some advice on a problem that i am experiencing. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have recently become engaged. I am very much in love with him, he is my soul mate and i couldn't imagine being without ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya he probably feels that he dosent have to make an effort for you anymore becuase you are used to him becuase you have been with him for so long. and as for the attention bit it is understandable that you would like to do things with him but ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and experience very heavy periods. Is this normal?

Q.   Heyyy, Is it normal for a 13 year old to have really heavy periods, cause when i stand up its like a waterfall and i need the toilet quite alot and i normally feel dead during the day. and i spend around 10 mins in the toilet each time. am i too ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya its nothing to worry about i experienced this problem at your age and i told my carer about my problem and she took me to the doctors and i got the pill at the age of 13 but only to control my periods not because i was having sex. if you tell... (read in full...)

What's happening with my periods?

Q.   Hi, Just looking for help because I'm really confused now. My last normal period was 6th-10th September and they are regular so I was expecting to come on again around the 8th of this month. I waiting until I was a week late and took a pregnancy...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i have had this with my periods and i went to my doctor and it was just a change in my body i think this is what might be happening to you. i did pregnancy tests and stuff but i was just getting myself worried over nothing. my periods vary to l... (read in full...)

We're cheating on his new gf

Q.   Confused about my feelings for my ex...he has a new gf but we have had sex since they started going out...I think he's now avoiding me in some way but there's loads of signs that he still wants me. For example when we were cheating on his new gf he ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i think that your in love with this guy but there isnt any chance of a relationship becuase you wouldnt be able to trust him if you and him have been cheating with his gf because there will always be a thing in the back of your mind will he ... (read in full...)

I don't like pubic hair

Q.   im 15. i don't like pubic hair. or anal hair. is it safe to get rid of it. and how? i tried shaving it once but each hair which the razor puled out a dot began to bleed so i stoped? please help soon its iritating ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i dont think many people like pubic hair but i think the safest way to get rid of it is to shave it i have never had any harm but u will cut ur self a few times but only because the skin is sensitive at the beginning ... (read in full...)

I want a realtionship with him! How do I tell him this?

Q.   i'v met up with my internet guy 3 times now, and we get on really well! i would like a relationship! he is quite shy, do u think i should be brave and sit him down and say," i like u alot! how do u feel?" or should i text him? or should i wait for ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya you should just ask him how he feels about you because if he is meeting up with you he obviously enjoys your company he might want a friendship or a relationship with you. i personally would just ask him straight but if your shy then i thin... (read in full...)

I think I'm in love with my best friend

Q.   I am i 16 year old girl and i think im in love with my best friend....i dont know tho...i want it to be lust more then love..but he has that thing about him..we were dateing but broke up.....i dont want to hurt him again...but i really think i love ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i think that if you have already been together and split up it might be a bit tricky, but i think you should drop a few hints to him about being together and if he gives you positive comments then ask him to get back with you but you shou... (read in full...)

My best friend also likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

Q.   Hey guys. I really like my boyfriend and I care about him. And there's my best friend (aka also a relative of mine), I talk to her about everything. We are practically like sisters. But one problem is that she likes my boyfriend. She is always ...

A.   28 October 2006: hiya i think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about this situation i think that your friend will understand if you tell her, also i think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel about him flirting with your friend but is ... (read in full...)

Now normal is it for dad to perve at his daughters?

Q.   hi, i'm 15. almost fully grown. is it normal for your own dad to look at their daughters bums or legs or boobs? cos i go and get a drink and i turn round to where my dad is, on the sofa and hes looking at my bum. i saw my mates dad look at her bum ...

A.   21 August 2006: i dont think this is normal my dad doesn't do it anyway if this is worrying you maybe you should try and sit and talk get it off your chest dont let him bother you.... (read in full...)

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