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I have total hots for him! His girlfriend already flirts with other guys - What do you think I should do?

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Question - (19 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *izz Hanzi writes:

Help! I have loads of boys who fancy me, but I fancy this boy who has a girl. I have total hots for him and rumor goes that his mate has been flirting with other guys anywa! Please, I need help. What do you think I should do??

I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

It doesn't matter if his gf flirts with other boys..you want to respect other people's feelings and take care not to take her bf away from her, dear. Teens dating is fun and it sounds like you have enough admirers. Don't prove yourself untrustworthy and unkind, by taking another girl's bf. Your behaviors are what other's will take note about you. And we know in the teen world, friendships, social status and reputations can be ruined by doing something dumb and unthinking. Date some of the boys that do like you and if this guy you like ever becomes available..then you make your move. Good luck

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A female reader, Ears4tears United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2007):

Ears4tears agony auntYou lucky girl you!!!

If i was you id take my pick of the free and single guys lining up for ya. That way your not stepping on anyones toes, trust me huni leave well alone that aint the kind of attention you need. If you really do like this guy then youll wait, coz if the rumors are true then you wont have to wait very long

x x x have some fun with the avaliable ones x x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

I think you should leave it alone and get over the "hots." He already has a girlfriend, and YOU are much too young to be having sex with anyone.

Just cool it and concentrate on enjoying life with your friends, family, activities and focus on your school work.

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A male reader, aftamath96 United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2007):

If you dont wanna hurt anyones feelings then Id advise ya 2 do nothing, untill they split!!

If you do somthing about ya feelings someone is gonna get hurt n i dont just mean his missus, I mean u. Have you thought about what would happen if he rejects ya?

Ur young live a little!

Im sure that if shes been flirting with other guys it wont last for long. Then take the opportunity!!

Good luck Gaz

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