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writes:i have this guy at work who likes me alot he does most of my work for me and does his work he buys me lunch all the time we talk and he is fun but the only thing is he is about 320 pounds and black as the marker your lookin at..he keeps telling me he wants to be my boyfriend i like him alot but cant see myself with him what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): If you're not attracted, you're not attracted. Just tell him you prefer to be friends. Then, stop taking advantage of his fondness for you and do your own work and stop accepting any gifts he buys you.
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reader, ALONSO80  +, writes (23 April 2009):
tell him he's not your type,
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Not be with him. If you cant see yourself with him then dont start dating him even though he does a bunch of nice things for you. Next time he tells you he wants to be your b/f, tell him you just dont see that happening, but you would like to be a friend. If he reacts immaturely, good riddance....he isnt worth your worry or time. Stand up for yourself and dont take crap from anyone. If he wants to keep buying you stuff and douing your work, let him but realize that you have no obligation to him. You are only responsible for yourself.
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (23 April 2009):
 HONESTY, hello? Doesn't anyone know this word anymore?
I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but try explaining to him just like you did here, tell him that you don't feel you and he would be a good match for each other, but if you change your mind you will let him know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): LOL. you have made my day. i would let him know that you like him as a friend and you appreciate the nice things he does but right now you are not interested in starting a relationship with him. If he truly likes you he will accept your honesty.
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