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writes:hey, so i can't get over someone... i have like the perfect boyfriend and all and i like him a lot. but this guy.. he's 7 yrs older than me, and im 15. he keeps messign with my head and i really thought i loved him at one point but i know i need to get him out because all he probably wants is a little girl to play with.. but what can i do to get him out?? hes always like were gonna get married and stuff and hes the one that talks to me. helpp?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone. i kinda got in trouble with this older guy with the police and stuff and yeah. i know it's right to ignore him. it's so hard to not think about him though.. and it makes me sad, but i gotta do what i gotta do. thanks again everyone, it means a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Think about how easy it could be for you to fool and manipulate an 8 year old kid. This guy is taking advantage of your age difference and you will be sorry if you keep talking to him.
Cut off all contact with him if you can... make excuses, etc.
Have you thought about talking to a trusted older woman, like a sister, aunt, or your mother about this problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): The older guy will f with your brains and you well know it, so walk away, you have a bf, so what are you playing at. You should have the common sense not to take any notice of this geek, dont let him into your head and certainly not your body. Please ignore him.
take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): You are a wise young lady and you already know the answer! This older guy is not just messing with your head, his trying to play with your emotions and your hormones! He is bad news! PLEASE, tell him to leave you alone, tell him you are very happy and then IGNORE him! Should he fail to respond to your request, speak to your mother or somebody about it to help you. Do not allow this man to get youmeak and mild and take advantage!
Look after yourself and value your good boyfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): hey! im 15 too! my advice is short, stay w/ this perfect bf, and stay away from the older guy, block him, idk, but he sonds like a creep.
PS sorry if my advice was rude, i just strongly believe that dating the old guy is kinda creepy....
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