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writes:I'm expecting answers such as 'get as far away from him as possible' etc. to this question.. but I beg you to not say this.For the past 18 months i've been in love with this guy, who doesn't really know how he feels about me and changes his mind lots, we've never actually kissed, and there's a christmas party coming up.He's told me that he's having a kissing competition with his friend, to see who can kiss the most people, and kept asking if i was going to kiss anyone and if i was going.My friend has told me that she thinks this was his awkward way of asking me to kiss him, however do I kiss him, knowing that I'll only be another girl that he kissed, or do I refuse him, and regret, and possibly throwaway a chance to be with him.To kiss him is something that I've wanted for so long and it seems silly to not, but I know what he's like, and often after he's kissed a girl rarely talks to them again, but he's never had this long a 'relationship' with a girl, and I know it's petty of me, but please can I have some help?I know what the sane answer is, but also I think with my heart, and I know what the answer of someone who is in love is. PLEASE HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): this might sound a bit 'huh'?!...but i reckon u shudnt...be classy..if u love him...itll work out..u dnt wna be part of a competition do u?...if he wonders y..tell him...or ring him n say 'lisen..i wuda lovd to hav kissed u...bu fing is...i like u too much to kiss u part of a lame comptition'..its sounds daft..yep..it does..bu at least u walk away knownin u told him hw u feel..n not sum part of a game..r u with me?...god bless u n urz..friend...kip us posted x
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reader, kat14 +, writes (11 December 2006):
 If i was you i would kiss him but maybe move your hands around his body while doing it and maybe dont stop at one pull away and then you kiss him. Give him the message that you do really like him. That your not just in it for the fun.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (11 December 2006):
 Well you know him best. If you like him this much go for it. You could be an exceptin but you never know. Bad habits are hard to break. If you are in live with him and want to stay in love with him then you need to be the exception or move on. Good Luck.
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