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writes:Ive been seeing my boyfriend over a year now and everythings going ok but something is really bugging me to the point that i am thinking of ending things. I have not meet his parents and its making me feel like he is not serious about the relationship. I know it seems trival to some people but its bugging me why. Ive meet his two children and he mine and ive meet his sister who lives in another town. The relationship seems to be going slow because he has his kids one week on then one week off, which makes it hard to see each other that much. am i wasteing my time........... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice, I have asked him if there is a reason for this and he tells me that it just hasn't happened (no reason). I don't want to ask anymore because I feel like I look like a bunny boiler ..............so I'm just taking one step at a time. I'll keep you up to date with our progress.
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reader, bernergirl  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 I understand. It is a big deal. My ex didn't introduce me to his parents either and 5 years later we broke up. I don't know what to advise you to do, except to tell you, that you have right to feel uncertain about the relationship. If I could do it all over again I would tell him how you feel, give yourself a time line for him to do the right thing and if he doesn't then I would move on. He might just be guarded and protective, my ex didn't have children or an ex meddling in things or had gone through a divorce so that could just be circumstance. Give him an opportunity to explain why he has hasn't introduced you yet, don't back down but be receptive. Good Luck and keep me updated.
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